7 Massive Mistakes Women Make That Make Men Run Away

Hiya!

Okay so I’m going to write this from the perspective of a guy looking at a woman he’s dating and the 7 mistakes that make me think… “What… is… she… doing…? UH. I’m outta here!”

I’ve reworked the actual titles and descriptions that Claire used in her report so I don’t leak her “secrets”… and using some different examples (like from my own life)

Mistake #1 – What is she worth?
I once had a friend whose brother would go to sleep while his girlfriend (who I actually knew from elementary school – “it’s a small world after all” comes to mind…) sat on the sofa and watched TV… for hours. Like everyday (or so it seemed). Have some self-worth!

[side story]: the same friend above just appeared at my doorstep one year… at one point she said: “If you lost some weight you could look as good as you used to.” LOL Part of me was like “I know… I was freaking HOT!” And the other part was thinking “I WAS freaking HOT!” Nice back-handed compliment if I’ve ever heard one. And she also revealed just how needy she was for some guy from her past… she drove to my place using her ex-boyfriend’s mother’s car! Imagine that! I wouldn’t believe either except that it actually happened to me.)

Mistake #2 – Mama…? Is that you? AKA Let me be my own man!

Have you ever seen a grown man drive let his momma drive him around?

Don’t try to take his place in the relationship. Seriously. He doesn’t need a mom. And he definitely doesn’t need a man!!!

Don’t be a back seat driver. Refrain from asking him “Why are you going this way…? Let’s pull over and ask for directions, we’re lost, we’re going to be late…!”

Once you start questioning his choices he will “KNOW” that you think him an incompetent fool. He’ll resent, not his momma, but YOU!

(There is a time and place to be nurturing and motherlike. You will need to figure that out. Claire can help you with this too of course! You know the drill… grab full access to her “Capture His Heart and Make Him Love You Forever” program and learn how to be his girlfriend and even his wife & lover)

Don’t scold, don’t nag, don’t supervise. That’s the EXACT OPPOSITE of being a HOT SEXY WOMAN!

If I can add an extra bit here: There was a girl who was trying to tell me how to dress. Early on. Even a guy friend of mine was telling me how she sounded like a “superficial _____.”

I will tell you though… it’s pretty powerful when a woman says “I like you hair like that.” AND especially if you were to brush your hand through my hair or rubbing my recently shaved/cut hair)! Guys LOVE this! Trust me!

Mistake #3: Some Day My Prince Will Come…

Mistake #4: Waiting by the phone all day long, instantly texting him back and rug burns from day 1

Don’t tell the guy you’re interested in & his best friend about how you went to a Passion Party and you were the only one who went all around the chairs (meaning you’ve experienced and engaged in “extra curricular activities” far beyond what other women have experienced or are willing to admit publicly) and be excited to be with you. Let alone even think about being more than just friends. Or friends with benefits. That’s just nasty. Don’t be any man’s bootie call.

If you’re both just waiting for each other to call or text and not going out and doing things with your own gals and him with his pals then that’s a relationship headed for potential disaster.

If you’re too easy and too available… you kill his thrill of the chase.

Remember, guys are looking for an adventure. They love questing… think about why guys love action movies, sci-fi and fantasy flicks too! (Anyone remember Choose your own adventure books?) Men love to play their video games too… (which makes me wonder if you’re just any regular easy-pickings kind of girl who can’t pull him away from virtual adventuring and real life chasing after you…)

As Claire write “So make sure you’re not the low-hanging fruit that any scrub could just reach out and pluck.”

She recommends that you:
• Don’t call him more than he calls you.
• Don’t drop everything to return every single text or call immediately.

(I don’t totally agree with this as I would like it if the woman called and didn’t seem to keep tabs on how often she was calling me versus how often I called her and I think it would be nice if women did return texts or calls ASAP although I can totally understand why she’s advising you no to do so…)

Mistake #5: Praise by Route, I’m not a little puppy dog and I ain’t your little baby boy.

Have you ever seen a person with a puppy or mother with her baby saying “Good Job!” for anything and everything they did? Everything was cute… everything was great. Praise. Praise. And more praise for a job well done! Now fast forward to when the puppy is fully grown and the boy is now a man. I can understand still talking that way to your dog… no matter how old they get dogs are still puppies to you am I right?

Not the same thing with men! Unless you’re his mother…!!! (My mom still refers to me and my friends as boys. ugh. LOL)

You have to be specific.

Your praises mean NADA. His reaction will be like ‘WHATEVER’…

{{{btw if you’ve NEVER thanked or praised your special man before… now would be a great time to start!}}}

Mistake #6: Stop talking (it’s not what you think!)

Here’s a specific example from Claire’s Report:

He comes to pick you up, and it’s clear he put a lot of effort into dressing to the
nines.

You say: Wow. You look…. (take a deep breath, and bite your lip)

Do you see how HOT that is?!

Mistake #7: Premature enunciation (you almost read that as something else didn’t you?)

Don’t fawn over him! You will come across as needy.

Hey! I do realize these are a whole lot of DO NOTs and not enough DO THIS and DO THATs but that’s what Claire Casey’s “Capture His Heart and Make Him Love You Forever” is for!

Take care Princess!
Yoon

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