How Do You Get Him to Make The First Move & Kiss You First?

bobby k here…

You know that relationship advice guy Michael Fiore who helped share Claire Casey with you? Well he’s written this article you’ll probably HAVE TO read . . .

It’s called “The Kiss Signal No Man Can Ignore” and it tells you EXACTLY what to do to let a guy know you want him to kiss you (without you having to make the first move) . . .


Sub: How to let him know he should kiss you (right now) . . .

Hey, it’s Mike Fiore with your weekly Digital Romance Newsletter.

In this week’s issue we’re going to dive deep into the whacky world of KISSING and I’m going to give you a simple 3-step “trick” you can use to let a guy know he should STOP TALKING AND FREAKING KISS YOU ALREADY . . .

But first . . .

Speaking of kissing, I just put up this new video for you:

I call this my “How To Kiss A Man To Make Him Fall In Love” video (click the link) because that’s what it tells you how to do . . . how to kiss a man with so much passion, power and feminine vulnerability he feels his heart cracking open the moment your lips touch his.

(Yes, I know that is a HUGE promise, but it’ll all make sense when you watch the video.)

And now . . .

How To Let Him Know You Want To Be Kissed

Jenny asks:

“Mike, I love your stuff so much but I need your HELP. See, I’ve been two dates with this guy I really like and he STILL hasn’t kissed me. I don’t know what to do. I think I’ve made it really obvious that I’m interested (why would I go on a second date otherwise?) and he’s a really great guy. Should I just grab him and kiss him? Why is he so nervous? Does this mean he doesn’t actually like me?”

Hi Jenny,

Great question and I’m glad you asked it. (It’s so nice having a question that’s a bit “lighter” than the typical “everything in my life is falling apart” variety I usually get.)

Let’s just take your questions one at a time (and in an order of my choosing) . . .

1. Why is he so nervous?

You know, in the 7 years I’ve been doing this relationship advice thing it’s never failed to shock me how clueless women are at how INCREDIBLY FRIGHTENING you are to men.

Yes, yes, I know that YOU think you’re just sweet and approachable and have no idea why big, burly men would be terrified of you but that’s because you don’t have a penis.

The fact is to the vast majority of guys (guys who aren’t “players” anyway) being REJECTED by a woman (especially a woman we really like) is one of the most agonizing experiences of our lives.

And the fact that YOU as a woman have the POWER to make us feel such excruciating pain makes you TERRIBLY SCARY to a lot of guys.

Add in the fact that guys are generally completely clueless at picking up signals your average woman would think were as subtle as a air raid siren and it’s a recipe for a whole bunch of missed “kissing connections.”

What I’m saying is, the reason he’s so nervous (and it sounds like he really is nervous – nothing else nefarious or weird is going on here) is because:

A. He DOES like you and he’s letting the fact that he likes you mess with his head. I’ve been in this position before and if he’s anything like me (or how I was years ago, I guess) his internal narrative is something along the lines of “I want to kiss her. Does she want me to kiss her? What if I do it wrong? How does she like to be kissed? Man, is this the moment? Is this? How about now? DAMMIT, I think I missed it.”

And then he goes home and gets on the internet and looks at a bunch of “How to know if she wants to be kissed” articles. =-)

B. He knows first kisses are IMPORTANT and that whether there’s “chemistry” in that first kiss or not has a FREAKISH impact on whether you’re ever going to want to see him again.

C. He doesn’t know with absolute certainty if you want him to kiss you and the idea that you might NOT want him to (and that you might pull away, get angry or put him in the “Friend Zone” when you make a move) has him suffering from terrible KISSING PARALYSIS.

Oh, and there’s a 4th reason he’s nervous that I only reveal in my “How To Kiss A Man To Make Him Fall In Love” video because I honestly can’t explain it here.

2. So what do you DO to get him to get over his fear and hesitation and actually kiss you?

Great question and I’ll answer it right after I say this important thing:

IMPORTANT THING: Whatever you do, do not make the first move to kiss HIM . . .

Yes, I know it’s 2017 and this is “Old School” but as a guy myself I can tell you that when a woman makes the first move it just messes with every masculine part of me in a way that FREAKS me out. (Remind me to tell you about the time a butch lesbian tried to hit on me like I was a girl. It was WEIRD.)

OK, now that that’s out of the way, let’s lay out EXACTLY how to let a guy know you want him to kiss you (without feeling like you’re making the first move or acting like a “slut” or anything AT ALL.)

We’re going to start with the relatively SUBTLE way of letting a guy know and move on up to “Hit him with a hammer” type methods depending how clueless the guy is.

1. Focus on his lips:

During your date, let him catch you looking at his lips, then his eyes, then his lips again while smiling slightly.

As an added bonus, you can let him catch you staring at his mouth and then look away bashfully like you didn’t “want” to get caught. That kind of “shy coyness” is a classic kissing signal that will let bolder guys know you’re ready to be kissed.

Licking your own lips (like you are wetting them to get ready for a kiss) also works wonders.

2. Wait for “Kissing Moments” and don’t “retreat.”

You’ve seen these meet cute “kissing moments” all the time in movies. It’s when the hero and heroine get flung across the room by an explosion or whatever and end up laying in a pile on the ground with their faces just INCHES away. They stare into each other’s eyes. They move imperceptibly closer . . . and then the monster comes lunging out of the darkness and the moment is lost.

If you guys are getting “cuddly” at all during a date there are going to be times when your mouths end up in super close proximity.

Now, whatever you do, when these moments happen, don’t push your head forward and kiss him. You want him to COME TO YOU and feel like he made a CHOICE to kiss you (which will make him fell all manly.)

Instead, when those moments happen and you’re within a few inches of him (when you go to give him a hug, when you’re drunkenly leaning on his shoulder, whatever) don’t “back up.” Hold his gaze, look from his lips to his eyes, lick your lips lightly and let your jaw relax like you’re Paris Hilton doing her “pouty girl” pose (you know, the only pose she knows. Whatever happened to her anyway?)

3. Use “Cute and Coy” kiss me phrases.

If a guy just isn’t taking the hint with the more “Subtle” methods its time to actually use some words.

Now, again, YOU DO NOT WANT TO MAKE THE FIRST MOVE. You’re not going to ask him to kiss you or anything like that (that just takes away your feminine power.)

Instead, you need to wait for or create conversational moments that can lead to you letting him know with 100% certainty that you want him to kiss you, but in a humorous way.

For instance:

* You stare off into space for a second. He asks “What are you thinking about?” and you smile at him say “Oh, I was just wondering what it’s going to feel like when you kiss me.”

* At a certain point in the date, after he’s impressed you enough to know he’s not some random d-bag just look him in the eye with a smile and say “You can kiss me if you want.”

* Start a conversation about kissing. Say “I just love kissing so much. I heard from this guy Michael Fiore that a kiss is a conversation and you can learn so much about somebody by the way they kiss . . .”

Then look at him with a pregnant and meaningful pause while looking at his mouth, then his eyes, then his mouth.

And that’s that. What you’ll notice is that even though you are flat out letting him know you want him to kiss you you’re still leaving him “In control” of the kiss (and letting him keep his masculine ego.)

Got it?

Great!!

Of course, getting him to kiss you is just the start. You also need to know HOW to kiss him in a way that makes fireworks go off in his mind and have him fantasizing about making him yours and only yours forever.

Which is why I want you to stop whatever you’re doing and go watch my “How To Kiss A Man To Make Him Fall In Love” video RIGHT NOW.

It’s really good.

I’m proud of it.

Here’s the link again:

==> http://clairecasey.com/howtokiss2.html <==

Best,

Mike

P.S. There’s a lie about kissing almost all women fall for that has sabotaged every serious relationship you’ve ever had. Do you know what it is?

Watch the video to find out.

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Well, what do you think? Better yet, try out Mikes advice and let me know how it went… (^_-)

Thanks for reading and do watch the video mentioned in the article,

bobby k

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Now there is one common complaint about this webinar… that Michael was constantly interrupting Claire, often talking over her and not allowing Claire to speak as freely as she could have… “Mike, let her speak!” The most important thing though is to grab those nuggets that you can use to understand your man’s mind. It might actually freak him out that you know him so well… ‘Oh man, she knows me better than I know myself… WOW! What a woman!’

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How can a woman know if a man really likes her or just wants to sleep with her?

-How to deal with a man that’s silent.
-What kind of questions should you be asking your man… why “What are you feeling?” is absolutely the wrong thing to ask him…
-signs that he could be cheating on you… & what to do when you find out that he is. (The answer is not what you’d expect to hear. It will probably make you go “What…?! Seriously?”)

[will add some more of what Claire and Michael talk about in the Decode a Man Webinar soon! Less than half way through so far… lots of great relationship advice being shared here!]

Time for you to find out why us men sometimes don’t call you back… (^_^)
-Yoon

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Men Fear These 2 Things More Than Anything Else

Top 2 Things Men are Terrified Of (and How to Help Without Letting Them Know You Know) By Claire Casey

He will never tell you any of this.

In fact, he’s dying to read this article, but he would never let you catch him doing it, and he certainly won’t admit to wanting to know if his deep, dark secrets are hanging out like underwear on a clothesline. In the front yard. In the middle of a busy city. (Hah!)

Well, he won’t tell you, but I will.

But first, two warnings:

First, this isn’t a complete list. Of course! But I think these are the two biggest ones. (I’m working on more articles about a few of the others…)

Second, I’m not telling you so you can shame him. I’m doing this so you can help him. But you have to be sneaky, so that he doesn’t know. Be nice to your man – he worships the ground you walk on, and believe me, he knows a few of your dirty dark secrets, too.

On to the juice, shall we?

GUY FEAR #1: My sexual desires are NOT okay
I won’t tell you that old thing about how guys want waaay more sex that women do, because it’s actually not true. Women want it, we just want it under different terms. He just… wants it. Every possible way he can imagine it. With your sister, your mom, the librarian (definitely the librarian), the teenager snapping her gum behind the cash register. He’s even had a dirty fantasy about that weird shopping cart lady.

Sex movies of every description (multiple lovers, bondage, fetish, you name it) run in his brain nearly all the time, and sometimes what’s showing on the screen shocks even him.

Deep down, he’s terrified that he wants sex too much, or in the wrong ways, with the wrong people. His sex drive is a formidable machine, and it’s a testament to his power that he doesn’t let it drive his life, only his brain.
What YOU can do to help him.

Creating an atmosphere of openness in your intimate life with him is the first step in making him feel less scared about his sexual desire. I’m not saying you have to DO everything that he THINKS about, but be willing to ask him to talk about his fantasies. Invite him to give you steamy details. Even the act of sharing can be a tremendous gift of sexual energy between the two of you.

Help him learn to make YOU the star of his sexual mind shows, even if all you do is tell him a dirty story during foreplay.

And finally, don’t forget to let him know you’re sexually satisfied! If you can do this, he’s going to become so riveted by you he’ll never want to let you go. EVERY man wants to know he can sexually satisfy a woman.

GUY FEAR #2: Other men will think I’m weak
You gotta feel for the men of our world. They’re expected to get a respectable paycheck, make us feel secure, (not think about sex so much), beat out the other guys, support the winning team, be tough, overcome all the obstacles in their way, scare away the bad guys, and never show fatigue, fear, or ANYthing except sheer strength and confidence.

It’s a lot to live up to.

It’s impossible to live up to, actually.

And yet that’s the challenge they hear every single day. And if they don’t answer it – actually DOMINATE it – their fear is that they will be publicly shamed, humiliated, despised… Not so much by you or by other women (although they hate the idea of that, too), but by other MEN.

But that doesn’t mean YOU don’t have power. Every man wants a woman who is unreservedly, whole-heartedly ON HIS SIDE. Your support actually adds to his power in the world of other men.

What YOU can do to help him…

I have a question for you: if he’s fighting away on the field of his life, do you ever even show up at his game? And if you do, can he hear your enthusiastic, genuine support for him?

I’m not saying you have to actually get out your cheerleader skirt and shimmy and shout (although he’ll probably appreciate that, see #1 above!), but there IS a way to let him know you’re seeing how hard he works, and you want him to win.

Encourage him to tell you about his daily battles. Lean in and attentively soak up every bit. Ask for details. Don’t multitask while you’re doing this; give him your full focus. Be his raving fan.

And offer him your sincere admiration. Let him know how strong you find him, how amazing his accomplishments and abilities are. If you can make him feel like you believe in him and are on his side no matter what, you are going to ADDICT him to you.

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Thanks for letting the cat out of the bag Claire… I’m not going to admit to having these 2 Fears… LOL
-Yoon

P.S. I’m going to talk about this in the context of a guy being married… imagine if instead of him day-dreaming about all these other women he fantasized about YOU instead?!

P.P.S. A Man really does need a cheerleader in his life. Question: If it’s not going to be you, who will he turn to instead?

P.P.P.S. If you help him with overcoming his 2 BIG Fears in Life… guess what? Now he’ll be able to focus his love and attention to something, or rather someone else… and that someone will be YOU!

Read His Mind. What He Really Means When He Says and Does These 5 Things.

How To Decode a Man . . . Read His Mind . . . & Figure Out What Men are Really Saying & Doing So They Won’t Be So Mysterious to You Anymore. ..

Hiya! Yoon back again… with some really cool news! Exciting even!

Over the last approximately 7 days I’ve written to you about this amazing video I saw . ..

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It tells the crazy but true story about how one regular girl got relationship expert Michael Fiore to fall head over heels for her . . .

Think about that… a relationship expert who supposedly knows all the dating “tricks, tips & secrets” was an unknowing “experiment” by a girl who used what Claire taught her and “hoodwinked” Michael into craving and chasing after her, a regular girl. Us regular men have NO chance versus that! (^_^)

But the reason I’m writing you today isn’t about this video.

Dating Expert Had No Chance Versus a Claire Casey Trained Girl (watch it again in case you missed anything)

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Go get him girl!
Yoon

P.S. If you can’t make the call live on Thursday you’ll get the recording.

Is He Cheating on You? Or Not?

Do YOU Think He’s Cheating When He Really Isn’t?
By Claire Casey

Before we begin, tell me which guys in the relationships below are cheating:

1. Hannah and Andre have been dating for 2 years. They’ve talked about getting married. She even thinks he’s been pricing some rings…

2. Elisa and Malik are like the “old couple” among their friends – they’ve been together now for 5 years, and even though they haven’t ever discussed marriage, she isn’t seeing other guys. She refers to him as “my partner” and they have a vibrant sex life.

3. Jasmin and Darren started seeing each other about 4 months ago, and are ecstatically in love. They talk on the phone multiple times every day, and go out on a date several times a week. Last week he moved in with her.

Wait! Before you tell me which of the guys in these three relationships do you think is cheating, let me tell you this: Every single one of those guys is seeing other women.

Does that surprise you? Make you angry?

Before you start throwing things (and for the record, I just made those three couples up, and I realize I didn’t give you much information to go on) you should know: the reason I ask is because I think this is an issue that crops up ALL THE TIME for women, and there’s a huge issue underneath the word “cheating”… And THAT’S the real issue we need to discuss…

How most women define cheating

Most women would tell you that if two people are “together” and one of them “sees” other people, that’s cheating. I’m not convinced there’s even one guy in the world who would agree with that definition, though.

And here’s why THAT is really, really bad for all the women in the world.

When a woman has that definition of cheating, she often completely gives over her life to a man who isn’t doing the same. In other words, he’s “won” her and may now either a) lose interest, or b) enjoy and keep all the “benefits” of a relationship with her but never make a commitment, even though she’s made a commitment to him.

If you hope for and want to be married someday, you could lose years of your life this way, waiting for a man who isn’t waiting for you.

So how SHOULD you define cheating?

In my world, “cheating” is a word reserved only for two situations.

First, where two people have made a clear and explicit agreement to date only each other and one of them breaks that agreement.

And second, in a marriage when one person “dates” (meaning sees because they’re sexually or deeply emotionally interested in) another.

Why you should (both) date other people until you are (both) ready to commit

There’s a big difference between dating and exclusivity. If you are a woman who is seeking a committed, exclusive relationship or marriage, one of the best things you could do to secure a commitment is to NOT be so easily won!
I’m not at all saying “play hard to get” – I’m saying look for the man who is going to commit, and don’t stop looking until you find him!

This actually not only keeps you from losing years of your life with a man who isn’t going to commit, it also makes you extremely desirable among men!

How to get him to commit to you

First, you need to clearly communicate (and this is delicate, and I talk more about it in “Capture His Heart and Make Him Love You Forever”) exactly how long you’re willing to date without a commitment.

Then, you need keep dating other guys until the two of you explicitly agree to be exclusive.

I know it’s hard to spend time seeing, spending time with, and enjoying other guys when all you want is to fall happily into the arms of this one particular man, but until you two agree that you are each other’s “only and forever,” that’s the best path toward your dreams.

How to make him BEG you to be his (and his only!)
If you’re sick of “Bad Boys,” “Players,” and guys?who just won’t commit, you need to go watch this new video renowned relationship expert Michael Fiore put up. It’s called “3 Steps To Make A Man Love You” and it teaches you how to make a man not just “fall” for a you… But to actually?make him obsessed with you so HE decides he WANTS to be serious…

–> Make him powerfully addicted (in a really good way) to you!

Michael lays out the absolute truth about what men ?really want and need from a woman for them to be able?to give EVERYTHING to her… (In fact, he flat out tells you how his girlfriend captured his heart and made him fall for her HARD even though ?he was “playing the field” and thought he’d never settle down.)

Thanks Claire for the above post: Do YOU Think He’s Cheating When He Really Isn’t?
-Yoon

P.S. If your man really is cheating on you and you REALLY want him no matter what… you should grab your instant access to Claire Casey’s Capture His Heart and Make Him Love You Forever program and find out how to make him only want you and never stray again!